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VELA is Love
Those who spend their days caring for, supporting, and helping others need care and support, too. It is so important to have moments when we can find peace within ourselves, feel supported, feel connected, and simply feel loved. Sometimes those who give so much to others also need a space where they can receive. That…
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We Support Others. But Do We See Ourselves?
Read more: We Support Others. But Do We See Ourselves?On emotional boundaries, the weight of the past, self-recognition, and the courage to be visible. People in helping professions spend much of their lives paying attention to others. We notice their struggles. We recognize their strengths. We encourage them to acknowledge their accomplishments, discover their potential, and move forward. But how often do we offer…
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When Someone Doesn’t Ask for Help
Read more: When Someone Doesn’t Ask for HelpWhen Someone Is Suffering but Doesn’t Ask for Help: What Can We Do? How to offer compassion, presence, and support without crossing personal boundaries. Have you ever watched someone struggle with grief or trauma and felt helpless because they refused your support? Perhaps it was a colleague who experienced a devastating loss. A neighbor going…
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When Generosity Starts to Hurt
Read more: When Generosity Starts to HurtWhat happens when generosity starts to hurt? Sometimes we give because giving is part of who we are. We offer our time, attention, resources, knowledge, emotional energy, and practical support. We may genuinely enjoy helping and believe deeply in compassion, service, and generosity. Then something seemingly insignificant happens. Perhaps we notice that someone comfortably accepts…
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The Power of Love or the Love of Power: What Are We Teaching Our Children?
Read more: The Power of Love or the Love of Power: What Are We Teaching Our Children?During a recent conversation with our colleagues, Dr. Sal Terrassi shared a thought that stayed with us: “Some people in the world focus on the power of love, while others focus on the love of power.” This simple distinction opened the door to a much deeper conversation. What does power mean to us? Why do…
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WAR IS UGLY
Read more: WAR IS UGLYWar is ugly… It doesn’t have any boundaries. It doesn’t have compassion. It tries to dehumanize everyone involved. It makes life painful. It tugs at the very souls of those involved, trying to make people lose hope and turn to hatred…I just want to quote my Ukrainian colleagues to show how deep their pain is…





